December 1st. The calendar turns to a month of relentless joy, twinkling lights, and constant reminders of togetherness. But for anyone carrying the weight of a loss, the holiday season can feel like a cruel contradiction. The world expects you to be merry, while your heart is breaking all over again.
If you’re reading this, feeling the sharp edge of grief amidst the tinsel and carols, please know this: your feelings are valid. You are not a Scrooge for struggling to find the cheer. You are a human with a heart that loves deeply, and that love doesn’t disappear just because your loved one is no longer physically here.
This December, we invite you to navigate this season differently—not by ignoring your grief, but by honoring it and making space for moments of genuine connection and peace.
Here are three gentle ways to care for your heart this holiday season:
1. Create a “Quiet Corner” for Connection.
Amidst the holiday chaos, designate a peaceful space in your home. This could be a chair by the Christmas tree, a table with a single candle, or a spot with a photo of your loved one. Visit this space not with pressure, but with an open heart. Light the candle, share a silent thought, or play their favorite song. This simple act creates a sacred pause to feel their energy, separate from the holiday noise.
2. Embrace a New Tradition That Honors Them.
Old traditions can be painfully sharp reminders of their absence. This year, give yourself permission to start something new in their memory. It could be donating to a cause they cared about, baking their favorite cookie to share with friends, or hanging a special ornament that represents them. This isn’t about replacing the old, but about weaving their memory into the present in a way that feels loving, not painful.
3. Allow Yourself to Feel the Full Spectrum of Emotions.
The holidays can be a rollercoaster. You might feel profound sadness one moment and a flicker of genuine joy the next. This is normal. Healing isn’t about being happy all the time; it’s about allowing all emotions to coexist. Let the tears flow if they come, and don’t feel guilty if you find yourself laughing. Your loved one in Spirit wants your happiness, not your perpetual sorrow.
These practices can offer daily comfort. But sometimes, the most profound healing comes from a direct, evidential message—a validation that cuts through the grief and delivers the undeniable knowing that your bond of love is eternal.
This is why we’ve created two very special events this December, designed to be sanctuaries for grieving hearts.
You don’t have to navigate this season alone. Join our community for an experience of heartfelt connection.
The Spirit of Christmas: A Live Mediumship Show
Feel the magic of the season in a powerful, festive atmosphere. Witness live messages from Spirit that bring profound comfort, joyful validations, and the healing reminder that your loved ones are sharing this season with you.
📅 Date: Saturday, Dec. 13, 2025 | 📍Location: Classic Cobalt Theatre
🕊️ Eternal Embrace: Holiday Edition (Online)
Join me from the comfort of your home for a gentle guided meditation designed for Spirit connection. I will guide you into a deep, relaxed state where you can peacefully meet your loved ones through visualization and memory, followed by evidential mediumship messages.
📅 Date: Wednesday, Dec. 10, 2025 | 💻 Online via Zoom
Let this December be the season you choose connection. Let us help you feel their love surrounding you.
👉 Click here to view event details and reserve your healing space.
Remember, the light of your love for them still shines brightly. This holiday, take one gentle step toward letting that light guide you to peace.